Tools in the Communication Tool Box
The communication tool box includes four communication styles: assertive, aggressive, passive, and passive-aggressive . I learned these tools while working and training as a nurse counselor . I was taught basic communication techniques in school .I learned that it takes more than “head knowledge” to apply these skills . To be an effective communicator ,I […]
Calming a SCHIZOPHRENIC Patient
The admissions department of the hospital walks a schizophrenic patient named Jim , onto the psychiatric unit. He is psychotic after being off his medication for three weeks. His speech is pressured, speaking faster than normal. He states, “ I am the ‘king of England’ .I own this place .” He fluctuates between pacing the […]
Why am I so Angry?
As I walk outside, a gentle breeze brushes across my face. It feels pleasant as a small strand of hair grazes my cheek. I love this time of year, with leaves changing colors from browns to yellows and oranges. I glance at my watch; oh no, it’s 5:30 pm. I’m 1 hour and 21 minutes […]
Mirror ,Mirror in my Hand,I love Me Just as I am
“Mirror, mirror in my hand, I love myself just as I am.” Looking at myself in the mirror, I say, “You are kind, compassionate, and caring. I love you just as you are.” It took me a while to believe these positive affirmations about myself. Being kind to myself mattered more than I realized. It […]
Recipe for Healthy Communications with Patients
Recipe for Healthy Communications with Patients “I won’t tell anyone that you’re seeing a counselor .” Working as a nurse counselor, I frequently talked to patients who avoided counseling due to the stigma of mental health issues .To help a patient feel comfortable talking with a counselor , the use of therapeutic communication skills is […]
Healing Hands and Words Was My Motto
Healing hands and words has been my motto, starting at an early age and continuing throughout my life. My childhood began a journey of caring for people. My early experiences started me on a path to prepare me for a future nursing role. I grew up in a small, rural town in West Virginia. Not […]